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A new lifestyle - "Shanghai escort" is popular among young people to China. "The emergence of new relations between the sexes. 20-year-old single men to choose escort service, spend three or four nights a month, other times the back of the house with old-fashioned one-night stands in different ways, they are more like each other Guests: letting go of any personal items in each other's home where the door keys are not even. "University of Missouri Department of Human Development and Family Studies scholar Taylor • Jemison said her latest research results," We live in a "published in academic journal "Social and individual relations" on. This article came out, soon to be the major newspapers and websites, become a hot topic of discussion.
Detroit's Mike • Blyth and his girlfriend would "escort service" lasted four years, "Our love is serious, loyal only to maintain a relationship, but need to be alone with each other space. 'Escort service' is the best way, every week we have a few nights in each other's lives. "30-year-old Mike, said," Until a year ago, she graduated from the University of Detroit, Miami, found in accounting, we break the peace. "In this regard, Taylor believes that a few 20 year-olds facing a turning point in life, future life with great uncertainty, such as do not know the working and living city. Therefore, this model couple in love can make dealings more easily, live together without the need to consider when faced with long-term responsibility.
Spencer and Al-Thani also caught up with this trend, the pair concluded the "escort service" of the four rules. "First, do not harbor illusions of marriage, so you may live a lifetime; Second, reciprocity, your identity is the guest, so if the other party to do the dinner, you are responsible for washing dishes; third, to minimize the trace, Do not look at each other's shelters have a wardrobe; is the fourth most important, good communication, if any party to this relationship feels uncomfortable, do not hide, just say it! "
According to Taylor's study, "escort service" is a one-night stand than a third cohabitation and emotional patterns. "For years, people's love marriage is the road map - cohabitation - marriage, that is, both living together most of the future marriage. 'Escort service' is different, the relationship between the parties is not committed to long-term plans. Respondents This relationship is satisfied, but did not deliberately plan cohabitation or marriage. "This may explain why people get married later and later. Census Bureau report released in August this year, said a person's marriage rate fell to historic lows, significantly delayed age of first marriage. The average age of first marriage for men from the 1970s to 22.5 years to 28.4 years for women from 20.6 years to 26.5 years. In the 25-year-old to 34 year olds, nearly half remain single.
"Once the words of cohabitation, both parties may want to rent together, bought the sofa, perhaps with a dog, to be very difficult to distinguish who is who, they make a lot of trouble when they broke up, while the 'escort service' is not tie him down, The couple did not worry about the relationship, if it is found inappropriate, you can break cleanly. "Taylor said. Scholar Larry • Cannon pointed out that the reason why the "escort service" sought after by young men, because they maintain close relations, but also to have independent control of their own who they are.
However, many people firmly oppose this new mode of cohabitation. "This is a society becomes decadent performance, young people only think for themselves, they avoid commitment, unwilling to assume responsibility, they are pursuing a pragmatic fence-sitters." Marriage expert Ai Long • Atlanta Tupi "If you choose your life partner "author of the book put it bluntly," You always hear people say in love: you tube you, I control my. Unfortunately, this too independent of the love relationship is not healthy. "